If you’ve got a business, then chances are you have trouble achieving balance between that business and your personal life. We’ve all been there. And it’s all too easy to let your business take over your entire life. Because there’s always more on your to-do list than any human can get done.
But if you want to be both successful and happy as an entrepreneur, you have to find a way to achieve a bit of that elusive balance. To help you on your quest, I recently solicited tips from more than 100 experts on productivity, time management, business/life balance, mindset and more. Below are a few more I thought were worth sharing. Enjoy!
Flexibility: One of the keys to balance your family and your business
“Balancing life as a successful, self-employed event planner and mother of three is a bigger challenge than I expected when I booked my first client years ago. I have found that balance requires enormous flexibility. Some days work requires more time and I must be prepared with ideas to entertain and care for my children. Other days, my children need more engagement so I must set work aside for later. By remaining flexible with my time, I am able to compensate for anything that arises–the mark of a good planner!” Emily McCollin, Lead Planner – Occasions by Emily www.occasionsbyemily.com
“Me Time” is critical to living a balanced, happy life and being fulfilled
“Think about when you fill your car with gas. If you wait until your tank is completely empty, it takes more time and effort to fill it. If you “top it off” every now and then, you are quickly on your way and not worried about running out of gas any time soon. “Topping off” your tank can be done in a variety of ways.
Do the ones that work best for you — ones that replenish and refuel you. Don’t let others judgments, comments or innuendo get to you. These common internal and external conflicts will hold you back if you continue to neglect your needs in favor of what boils down to a sense of guilt or obligation.” Bo Bradley, Chief Empowerment Officer – Manifest U! Inc. http://www.UniversityOfManifesting.com
You've gotta know what you’re missing to make a change
“Whenever I feel my life getting out of balance, I sit down and make a list of all the ways I spend my time during my waking hours, everything over and above a standard eight hour work day. I rank the list by the amount of time I spend on each. Next to that list, I write down the five things I consider the most important in my life, in order of their importance.
For me, just seeing the discrepancy between those lists is an incredibly powerful motivator for putting things back into perspective.” Barry Maher, http://www.barrymaher.com
At the end of the day, it's my responsibility to care for myself, my family and my business…
“…And God gave me 24 hours each day to accomplish those 3 things. There's no reason to stress myself out trying to make them fit into artificial timeslots. I schedule them when they make the most sense for me and my natural style.
For example, I'm a night owl. So I've chosen to do administrative tasks and email-based stuff after 9 p.m. when my daughter is in bed. That frees up daylight hours to take a much needed yoga class for relaxation or just to run a few errands when there are no crowds.”
Elene Cafasso, President & Head Coach – Enerpace, Inc. http://www.enerpace.com
10 Tips for Way too Busy Mom-preneurs (Many also good for us kid-free business owners too…)
1. Accept that not everything will get done on any given day (ie: laundry, beds)- the world will not end
2. Make lists and prioritize
3. Don't be a martyr- reach out to friends and family for help AND accept help when offered
4. Push through the guilt of not being able to drive for carpool (or volunteer for "media day")- it does not make you a bad mom
5. Ordering in pizza or making the same lunch for the kids every day does not make you a bad mom
6. Delegate
7. Outsource
8. Make time for yourself
9. Schedule date night with the hubbie
10. Deep breaths!
B Nathan, Founder – www.MyWorkButterfly.com
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